When we want to train children to be independent and learn to serve, one of the most effective tools to use is daily work at home. The way to do this is by guiding children to get involved.
Make Everyday Activities Fun
First, parents must see that daily activities are fun activities. Parents who sincerely live their daily lives will make children not see those activities as a burden. If parents often complain and think that daily activities are not fun, that perception will also be caught by children so that they will view homework as a burden that must be avoided.
Start from Simple Things
When we do housework, there are many things that children can do because basically children enjoy doing their parents’ work. Especially when parents do it happily and children see it as a challenge for them. Maybe the child can’t sweep because his hands are not strong enough to hold the broom and swing it properly. But when the parent is sweeping, the child can help get the broom. The child can’t wash yet, but he can help get the broom.
Unscheduled Activities
Do activities with your child incidentally, without planning. Make the activity something fun and enjoyable, not a burden. After you iron the clothes, occasionally invite your child to put his clothes in the cupboard. Do it only occasionally, not every day. It’s even better if the activity is carried out at the child’s request.
Praise and appreciation
Don’t forget to praise and appreciate your children after they’ve finished doing their activity. Even though their is not perfect and has many shortcomings, still give them praise. Praise their initiative or willingness to help.
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